What would you do, my mothers house or my house?

I am a 44 year old Independent Adult, that is temporarily living with my mother and step dad because of an injury I received a month ago which resulted in a broken leg. I was immobile and needed much care. Now I can get around on crutches but still not able to cook etc. I have a 14 year son and he stays with us also so that my mom can get him to and from school for me. My stepdad is very selfish man and he does not want us here and malkes us miserable but my mom is enjoying our company. I tried talking to my mom, but she does not allow anyone to talk negative about my stepdad. I am off work until next year and am now in a boot for 4 weeks,which makes it easier to get round. I want to go back home,I am loosing my sanity, but mom is tryna force me to stay with her. Mom is enjoying my company, and I as well.

HERE IS the situation, my mom is feeling guilty because she caused me to fall but it was an accident. We were coming out of a public building and she tripped on a step and fell into the back of me, without warning which pushed me over 6 flights of stairs. In my mind, I was angry at her at first because she never warned me that she was falling, I though she should have said HELP, MOVE, or I am falling help me, but I am glad that I took the fall instead of her because she is 61 years old. We were told that she is the 2nd customer to fall on the step and the company still has not fixed it so it was definately not her fault.

Long story short, me and my siblings cannot tolerate my step dad. I am helping my parents financially and I am also taking care of my home that I left my 19 year old son in that is doing lord knows what in my absence. My 19 year old is not working or going to school but have full range in my home. SORRY GUYS BUT I WOKE UP NEEDING TO VENT.I have been on my job 24 years, I have degrees, built my own home, and to date cannot walk and I miss normancy in my life, I cannot talk on the phone, step dad comes in room and listen to my conversations, leaves when they are over, if my boyfirends comes over to see my my step dad sits in the rooms with us until he leaves because he does not like visitors in his home. My step dad is my siblings biological dad and they will not come to see me when he is here because no one wants to be around him. SUGGESTIONS NEEDED,as many as possible, plese answer.

Update: November 25, 2012.
I did not mention but yes, I am thankful and appreciative of my mom caring for me and I tell her everyday. I have spoken to my step dad about his behavior but he is a user and a difficult person, and I am the only famiy member that tolerate him, please as many as possible continue share your opinion.

- Asked by Female, 36-45

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